I Don’t Like Change!

When I tell people of my move from WA to QLD most people are excited for me and wish me well. However, there are a small few that say “I couldn’t do it as I don’t like change”. I must admit, when I do hear this I do have a chuckle inside.

Here’s the thing, change is inevitable it is part of our life and it’s how we grow and challenge ourselves, by getting out of your comfort zone but also seeking out new opportunities.

When I decided to move to QLD, I had just built my house and not long before received the keys to move in. At the end of the day I wasn’t happy where I was and the more I stayed there more issues arose. This is where you can do one of these three things.

1. Bitch and moan about you being unhappy where you are

2. Keep thinking about it and talking about it or,

3. Do something about it!

That is what I have done, I am doing something about it, I dove deep into my spiritual work so that I can hear and see what it is that my guides wanted me to do. Decisions are made for you from the plan that was created by you before you.  

People fear making the wrong decision but when you make that connection with self and spirit, there won’t be wrong decision just another chapter in your life. Get this, if it does work out you’ve won or if you believe that it hasn’t worked out you still won, because you have learnt something in that experience and that will encourage personal growth. 

Think about it for a moment, let’s imagine that you had your life all figured out and you had that map of where your next move is, how easy would your life be? You wouldn’t have made any mistakes, or done things you may have regretted or even made bad choices that has turned around and bitten you in the arse.

So where is this proverbial map? It’s within your soul guided by your spirit team. Remove all the noise around you and sit in the peace and quiet of the day, my day begins at 5am that’s because my beautiful Belladonna (cat with attitude) wakes me for breakfast but also that time is pretty quiet, the noise on the street is minimal and usually no loud music. The magical part of this time of the morning is that the animals begin to wake outside so you get this amazing nature sounds.  

Here’s the thing, when you wake you’re in the Alpha Brainwave which means that you are relaxed enough to meditate and by sitting in silence and meditating you will be able to hear the guidance or feel the guidance from your spirit team.

So how do you distinguish between ego and spirit? This began my way of making a decision that will never fail.

1. Pro's and Cons List

The ego will definitely play a role in you not achieving your dreams and mainly that’s because it likes to play safe, from either your past experiences or what you have learnt in your living life.

Listen to your ego understand where it’s coming from, mostly it comes from fear so where is this fear coming from? You will need to dive deep into yourself and realise that a change in life can benefit you in many ways.

The Pro’s and Con’s (PNC) list is an oldie but a goodie, more importantly it satisfies the ego. Your ego is the conscious part of the brain it’s somewhat logical so when your develop a Pros and Cons list it actually quietness the ego chatter.

Get this, I’ve adapted my PNC list to have a third column, in this third column I grab the Pros and turn into a positive sentence, this will be used in my manifestation for my move and this can also help you with any change you may face. Here’s the thing we already know what we don’t want, so now change those words into a positive outcome you want to achieve which will benefit your manifesting.

By now you may have heard that when we plant the seed, the universe will help with the growth, meaning your change in your life didn’t just pop up, you had planted it and now you will nourish it whilst it grows.

Once I finished that list and thought of all the things that I could, I put that PNC list away for a couple of days and moved onto another list.

2. Ego Vs Spirit List

When you look at your PNC list and what you have written down, take another look and see if it is coming from your ego or your spirit.

Take this time slowly and really feel the words of what you have written down. If it feels like it’s coming from love then it’s most definitely spirit, if it feels like it’s coming from the head then it’s ego.

Once the list is developed, meditate on it and sit in stillness by doing this you will definitely know what your answer is, because the answer is always within you. Trust your intuition and where it guides you. If you don’t feel connected to your intuition then download “The Awaken The Phoenix” course on my website.

By making this list you will soon begin to see a story begin to unfold in front of you and you should be able to see where this list is going either positive or negative to situation. In other words the answer will reveal itself by doing this list.

3. The Importance List

Yes it’s another list! By now your ego has settled and your excitement may have kicked in by now. So when you have now accepted that change is going to happen, embrace it with writing what you want from It.  

Before you have re-written what you don’t want into a positive sentence for your manifestation now you’re going to develop it to specifics. Where your going has to tick all the boxes, divide the page in two, one column is a definite must have and the other is a maybe I can do without, it’s not important.

Combine this list with your manifestation column from the PNC list and now you have your story that will give you the visualisation to focus on when you’re manifesting your dreams.

4. External Clarification

At times you may want to seek out clarification on your decision by either talking to your friends, family or therapist and that’s great that you do that. However, don’t let them influence your decision, hear what they say and take it how you want but if it doesn’t feel like it’s coming from a place of love then it’s not guidance.

Another way of getting clarification is going to see a psychic or an intuitive tarot reader. I love seeing tarot reader especially when I believe that I’ve misunderstood a message from my guides. Here’s the thing, psychics and intuitive are only reading your energy and what your guides are telling you, which means you already know what the answer is because you’re being guided in that direction as long as you doin’t fight it you will get to where you need to go.

Which leads me to the next step…

5. Let It Flow

Now it’s time to put things into action, you have convinced your ego it’s the right thing to do, you’ve done all the inner work to ensure that you’re on the right path and you’ve sought external clarification which already has told you what you already know. So what’s next?

Action your manifestation, start getting the ball rolling and allow things to happen. By making the first step towards your new adventure, your journey will commence.

6. Conclusion

Get this, when you start putting things into motion you will notice that things will move a lot faster than you expect it to especially when you’re not meant to be there. When I began my journey towards the move, my house had an offer after two weeks of being put on the market and it was a cash offer which meant quicker settlement.

I moved back in with my parents and was looking for work until the settlement went through and I was unsuccessful finding a job, but then I got a phone call from a recruiting agency who signed me up and I was able to do a short term contract whilst my house was settling.  

For those wondering why I sold so quickly, it was part of a bigger plan for me. You see, I wasn’t meant to be in that house for a long time but the sell of the house has given me enough money towards a house in QLD. When you hold onto things that no longer serve you, it will loose value. So release it and release the control.

Making that biggest decision in your life will require change and allow it your journey be happy, of course there will be times when things won’t go exactly how you planned it and that’s ok, because it wasn’t meant for you.

7. Book Your FREE Discovery Call or Message Me

By now you are prepared to make that all mighty change and you will be confident on your decision, but if you’re still uncertain go to my website www.toetherwewilljourney.life and book a FREE discovery call or you can email me and we can go through it together because life is a journey and is best done with another.